The Complete Nepali Wedding Planning Checklist
The Complete Nepali Wedding Planning Checklist: 6 Months to the Big Day
Planning a wedding in Nepal is one of the most joyful — and one of the most complex — things a family will ever do together. A Nepali wedding is rarely a single event. It is a series of ceremonies spread across days, each carrying its own ritual significance, its own guest list, its own dress code, and its own logistical demands. The mehendi, the haldi, the wedding ceremony itself, the reception, and the post-wedding rituals all require separate planning, separate decoration, and separate coordination.
If you are starting from scratch and the wedding is six months away, the most important thing you can do right now is stop panicking and start planning. Six months is enough time if you use it well. This checklist is designed to give you a clear, month-by-month roadmap from today to your wedding day, covering every major decision and booking you need to make.
Why Six Months Is the Right Planning Window
In Kathmandu's wedding season — which peaks between October and February, and again in April and May — the best vendors book out fast. The most experienced event decorators, the most sought-after photographers, the most popular banquet halls, and the bridal makeup artists with the strongest portfolios are often fully booked three to four months in advance of popular dates.
Starting six months out gives you first pick of every vendor category. It also gives you time to make decisions thoughtfully rather than frantically — and time to handle the inevitable changes that come with planning an event of this scale.
The 6-Month Wedding Planning Checklist
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Timeline |
Task |
Notes |
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6 Months Out |
Set your wedding date |
Confirm with both families and check the Patro for Subha Sahit with Pandeet Jee |
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6 Months Out |
Fix the guest list |
Start with a rough count — venue capacity depends on this |
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6 Months Out |
Book your venue |
Hotels, banquet halls, and garden venues in Kathmandu fill quickly — book early |
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6 Months Out |
Book an event manager |
Coordinate decoration, programme flow, and vendor management under one roof e.g. Kapada Rent |
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5 Months Out |
Book your photographer |
Pre-wedding, ceremony, reception — confirm coverage and package details |
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5 Months Out |
Start outfit planning |
Bride and groom first, then family. Consider renting premium outfits to save cost |
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5 Months Out |
Shortlist caterers |
Taste-test menus; confirm dietary needs of key guests |
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4 Months Out |
Send save-the-dates |
Especially important for outstation guests traveling from outside Kathmandu |
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4 Months Out |
Plan pre-wedding events |
Lock dates and venues for mehendi, haldi and sangeet |
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4 Months Out |
Book makeup artists |
Bridal makeup artists in Kathmandu are booked months in advance |
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3 Months Out |
Confirm decoration theme |
Finalise colour palette, mandap style, stage design, and entrance decoration |
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3 Months Out |
Confirm outfit rentals |
Visit showroom, complete fittings, confirm all family outfits |
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3 Months Out |
Plan the reception |
Stage, programme, MC, music/DJ, bridal entry concept |
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2 Months Out |
Send formal invitations |
Physical cards for close family; digital for extended guests |
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2 Months Out |
Finalise catering menu |
Confirm headcount with caterer; arrange separate kids/elderly options if needed |
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2 Months Out |
Pre-wedding shoot |
Outfits, location, and photographer — ideally booked as a package |
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1 Month Out |
Confirm all vendors |
Call every vendor: venue, caterer, decorator, photographer, makeup, transport |
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1 Month Out |
Prepare ritual items |
Work with family elders to confirm the complete list of puja samagri |
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1 Month Out |
Arrange transport |
Coordinate guest transportation, bridal car, and family vehicles |
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1 Week Out |
Final venue walkthrough |
Walk the venue with your event manager and confirm every setup detail |
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1 Week Out |
Collect all outfits |
Pick up rental outfits; confirm accessories and jewellery |
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Day Before |
Rest and prepare |
Delegate final-day coordination to your event manager — let them handle it |
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After Wedding |
Plan post-wedding shoot |
Book outfits (groom in suit, bride in lehenga), photographer, videographer, makeup, and a nature or heritage location |
The Three Things Most Couples Forget to Plan
1. Outfit Coordination Across the Whole Family
Most couples spend significant time choosing their own wedding outfits and almost no time coordinating the rest of the family. The result — visible in photographs from almost every wedding — is a stage full of people in clashing colours and mismatched formality levels. Plan the family attire colour palette at least three months out. At Kapada Rent, we help families coordinate looks across multiple events from a single visit, ensuring everyone looks intentional and cohesive.
2. The Programme Flow for the Reception
The reception is the most publicly visible event of the wedding season, and the one most likely to run long, start late, or feel disorganised without a clear programme. Map out the full flow: guest arrival and welcome, couple's entrance, formal programme, dinner, dancing, and close. Assign a capable MC. Confirm with your event manager that every element has a confirmed start time and a person responsible for it.
3. Post-Wedding Events — Including Your Post-Wedding Shoot
The Griha Pravesh, the Bhat Khane ceremony, and other post-wedding rituals are often planned as afterthoughts — which means they are frequently under-decorated, under-organised, and more stressful than they need to be. Add them to your planning timeline from the beginning. They deserve the same care as the main ceremony.
One of the most overlooked — and most rewarding — post-wedding experiences is the post-wedding shoot. Unlike the wedding day itself, which moves fast and leaves little room for relaxed, artistic photography, a post-wedding shoot gives the couple dedicated time and space to create truly beautiful, unhurried images together.
What a post-wedding shoot typically includes:
- Groom's outfit: A well-fitted suit — classic black, navy, or a contemporary cut — photographed beautifully against natural or heritage backdrops. At Kapada Rent, our suit rental collection includes premium options specifically suited to outdoor and editorial-style shoots.
- Bride's outfit: A lehenga in a rich or pastel palette that moves well in outdoor settings and photographs with depth and texture — far more dynamic on location than in a studio. We help brides choose a lehenga from our rental collection that is designed to look stunning in natural light.
- Photography and videography: A post-wedding shoot should be covered by both a photographer and a videographer — the stills capture individual moments, while video captures the movement, laughter, and natural interaction between the couple. Book both together for a cohesive, coordinated result.
- Makeup and styling: Bridal makeup for a post-wedding shoot is lighter and more natural than ceremony makeup — designed to look fresh and glowing in outdoor light rather than dramatic under hall lighting. Book your makeup artist well in advance, as the best artists in Kathmandu are in continuous demand.
- Location — nature or heritage sites: Nepal offers extraordinary settings for post-wedding shoots. The Godawari Botanical Garden and Nagarjun Forest offer lush greenery and soft natural light. The heritage courtyards of Patan Durbar Square and Bhaktapur bring centuries of history and architecture into every frame. Hilltop locations around Nagarkot and Kakani offer dramatic mountain backdrops. The location should be chosen to complement the outfit palette and the overall mood the couple wants to capture.
At Kapada Rent, our post-wedding shoot packages bring outfits, photography, videography, and styling together under a single booking — so every element is coordinated from the first planning conversation to the final edited album. The couple simply shows up, looks their best, and enjoys the experience.
How an Event Management Partner Simplifies Everything
The checklist above involves coordinating between a venue, a caterer, a photographer, a makeup artist, a decorator, multiple outfit vendors, transport providers, and your extended family — all simultaneously, across several months. For most couples, this is their first time doing any of this.
An experienced event management partner does not just handle decoration on the day. They manage the entire vendor ecosystem: making sure the caterer's timeline aligns with the photographer's schedule, that the decoration is complete before guests arrive, that the programme runs to time, and that the couple and their family are free to experience the day rather than manage it.
At Kapada Rent in New Baneshwor, Kathmandu, our event management services cover the full wedding journey — from pre-wedding ceremony decoration and outfit rental to reception coordination and post-wedding setups. We handle decoration, photography, outfit coordination, and event programme management from a single point of contact, so you are not chasing five different vendors on the morning of your wedding.
Start Planning Today
The best time to start planning your wedding was six months ago. The second best time is today. Whether your wedding is six months away or three, starting the conversation with your venue, your event manager, and your outfit partner now will make everything that follows significantly smoother.
Visit us at our showroom in New Baneshwor, Bhawana Marg, Laxmi Chowk, Kathmandu to discuss your wedding timeline and get a personalised event management quote. You can also reach us at 9840068360 or kapadarent@gmail.com, or explore our full services at kapadarent.com.np.
Your wedding should be the best day of your life — not the most stressful. Let us help you make sure it is both beautifully planned and genuinely unforgettable.